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ALEXANDRA SHULMAN: Manolas were part of her identity for years, but here the former editor of Vogue laments... Who am I now that I can't wear HEELS?
ALEXANDRA SHULMAN: Certain things in life make us the person we are. And, for many years, wearing high heels has been one of those for me.
ALEXANDRA SHULMAN: Certain things in life make us the person we are. And, for many years, wearing high heels has been one of those for me.
